About Dr. Shaler

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Hi, I’m Dr. Rhoberta Shaler,  The Relationship Help Doctor

I help couples who need urgent and ongoing care to keep their relationships alive, vital, and growing.

I created Coupleology: The Gentle Art of Merging & Converging to help couples have the insights, skills, and understanding to build loving, mutually-supportive, satisfying, safe, long-term committed relationships.

I’m also the author of KAIZEN for COUPLES: Smart Steps to Save, Sustain & Strengthen Your Relationship. Ground-breaking proven new approaches to creating love, trust & emotional intimacy.

Sometimes we think of getting relationship help as a last resort, the place we go that shows the problem is bigger than our skill set, and that somehow we have failed.

I have a different view.

I think wise people — ones who know what they want and are focused on creating the best life, relationships and business success possible — naturally get help the moment they know they need it.

Our classes and private sessions are that kind of help.

For more than twenty-five years, I have been helping individuals, couples and families get the insights, skills and strategies they need to create the life and relationships they most want. And, I’m looking forward to helping you, too.

That’s why I only work with people who are ready to see through, think through and work through the obstacles and fears, scripts and blind spots that will allow them to flourish, to experience the life, love and livelihood they long for.

I help couples create blame-free, game-free, non-manipulative relationships.

Isn’t that what you want right now? Most couples do.

Everyone has obstacles, fears, scripts and blind spots! It’s whether or not you work through them that makes all the difference to the quality of your life.

…and, Geography is no obstacle to us working together.